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Consent
Consent: a "yes" that is freely given, when the option of "no" is both present and viable
Consent is an ongoing conversation before and during sexual activity. A lack of communication, such as silence, does not mean consent is given. Consent cannot not be coerced or negotiated. Consent is given in a sober, enthusiastic, mutual, clear and specific way throughout sexual activity (not just at the beginning of it).
A key part of consent is communicating with your sexual partner(s). In many cultures, talking about sex is considered taboo, which may make discussing sex and consent with your partner(s) feel awkward. Feeling awkward is okay and the more you practice asking for consent and discussing sex, the more normal it will feel and the more confident you will be in talking to your partner(s).
And How Do I Ask For Consent?
The Yes, No, Maybe Chart allows you to start the conversation as to what sexual behaviors and activities you would be open to with your partner(s) in the form of written communication. This chart was developed by UNC's Assault Survivors Advocacy Program and Gender & Sexuality Resource Center.
Sexual Assault Resources
If you have been impacted by sexual assault, intimate partner violence, or stalking, there are organizations at UNC, Weld County, Colorado, and nationally that are here to help and advocate on your behalf. UNC's Assault Survivors Advocacy Program has provided links to organizations that can help.
Please note that not all organizations offer the same services and confidentiality.